Apr 29 2008
Don’t Take it Personal
In my book, the main character’s husband is a pretty big jerk. I didn’t intend on making him so mean, but that’s just how it all came out so I didn’t try to fight it.
When I posted some bits of the novel online that happened to demonstrate what a jerk the husband character is I was surprised by the reaction of some of the male readers. I had three male friends/ex-boyfriends e-mail me the same timid question: “Is Thomas based on me?”
You would think my pool of ex’s is riddled with jerks, but it really isn’t. That’s why I was so surprised when so many of them automatically assumed that the mean character in the book must be a creation fashioned after them. I assured all of them: It’s fiction. You’re not Thomas. Thomas isn’t you.
For the record, the mean guy in my book is just a fictionalized character. I consider myself fortunate to have never had anyone like him in my life.
I think I have a new title for my book: This Isn’t You.
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